Nothing to Give?

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What if you feel you have nothing to give, that you have nothing to offer. How do you overcome this? How do you solve the riddle of worthlessness?

I would say that you first need to take stock of what you do have and what you are thankful for, like health, family, interests, the roof over your head, the lack of hunger in your stomach, the sound of your car's ignition lighting up. That you have work and much goodness around you. That your world in fact is full of abundance. Can you see it?
Why do the people in your life love you? What reasons? Just because you are blood and they have to? Or is there more than that. If you have a hard time thinking about why they love you, ask yourself, why do you love them? What about their character and personality do you absolutely love? Can you see it? Picture them in your mind and discover the truth, you know exactly what it is about you that makes you unique, and how people see and perceive you.
You need to understand the way other people perceive you to understand the true you, it cannot be the perceptions that "you" think they have about you. You have to detach yourself from this exercise, if you are to know who you are. Ask your friends, explain to them what it is you are doing, that you are trying to understand yourself so you can grow. More than likely they will be honest with you and help you out. Now don't get all defensive on them, shut the ego out of this. This is a clinical exercise, and it is required to understanding who you are. Even if you disagree with their perceptions of you, of who you think you are, just listen and take it in, thank them, and then think about it, asking yourself, is what they are saying is true? If you disagree, ask your self how could that be? How could their perception be so different from what my perception is? Ask yourself if I were to die today would I be happy with their perception of me? Because it is a question of values, of principles, if success is to be had, we need to see where we need to grow, and make sure that those perceived ideas of where you want to be, align with your core values and beliefs. You can never compromise on your core values for money, women, fame, or what ever other perceived treasures you may see out there. For if you do, you will be sending mixed messages to your sub-conscious mind, the creator of your reality, and you will sabotage yourself, in fact you already did by going against your core values to obtain a perceived treasure. The real treasure lies in your core values and beliefs. I'm not talking religion here, but religion can be an important factor in the core values you hold inside. But your path must always align with your core values, and your core values will change as you grow, and mature into a self actuating person of this world.
You see we all have something to offer once we understand who we are deep down inside. And with the pace of today's hectic lifestyle, most people don't seem to be taking the time to ask themselves the important questions, if I died what?, Why?, How? and therefore find themselves going against their core values without realizing it. Once you understand yourself, you will see what you have to give, it will come to you, because you will ask yourself, what does this all mean, and when you take measure of your deep beliefs, you will put it together and it will make sense. Then you will know, and because you know, you will be, you will do what is necessary to keep your life aligned with the truth. And as you share of it, and give it back to the world you will find your place in this big and exciting world, abundant in the utmost, the mountains, the vast oceans, the great plains, and jungles, the insane size of our universe, as they now talk of multiverses. And we have access to it all. Our minds are much larger than this universe and once we realize this our growth is unimaginable, all while we're giving back as our world has to us. Find your gift of give. Find your part in this universe. See how amazing your mind is, which you have under your total and complete control. We have been given total power over our mind and being. Look at power out in nature and imitate it, the great seas shelter the many, and gives us food out of it's abundance, the great forests give us of its wood and shelter providing shade and food for millions of creatures, the sun forever giving of itself ablaze in the sky, without which none could enjoy life. Do you see how everything is connected? How everything that is, needs and depends on what the other can give to many as they themselves gives to the many, and that in nature that is the law. You cannot get something back without first giving it in the first place. You too were meant to give of yourself to be complete and whole and to fulfill your place here in life.

Till Next Time Friends, May you Forever Learn and Grow
Yours Truly, The Constant Learner.
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